I agreed to meet him at a local chinese restaurant where it became clear he has a screw loose. Restaurant owner didn't want him eating there and said he was a "problem". He promised to behave, and was fine for most of the dinner. He then played the old "forgot my wallet" gag which caused me to pay for dinner. While waiting for the check he left for the bathroom, and the restaurant owner showed me a flyer with his picture and his history as an internet stalker and danger to the community. Found out many things later - he's a Failed college student who has never been employed in his life. Lives with his elderly father and exists only on handouts from his dad.
Found out later there is lots of information about this very sick man on the internet and I'm happy to share my experiences with this very bad man.